- Success Stories
The best thing that happened for me was gaining trust back with my ex which resulted in having the children more. I got that feeling to strive for things in my life that I want again. I gained more confidence in things I do and have less regrets. I am happy more of the time now. I noticed changes in my health, lifestyle and appearance. Communication between me and the ex is heaps better and my kids enjoy their time with me more.
I really liked the webinars and Millar’s words of wisdom and experience. During the program I learnt to have more self respect to better my own self esteem and I realised that I deserve better. Learnt to face my fears and to chase my passions and that life is about experiences. I noticed a big increase in self-confidence and now am more motivated to go after life and over-come personal challenges. The ex actually wanted ME back as she noticed the changes in me. Family and friends could see how well I was dealing with the whole situation and really encouraged me.
The interactions on the webinars were my favourite part and being able to connect with other blokes going through a similar thing. The biggest result for me was hearing my ex tell me she still loves me, which tells me that there is still something there and she’s seen the changes I’ve made. I’ve shown myself that if I apply myself and not listen to the negative voices I can do anything. Everyone around me has more respect for me. I have lost 40+ kgs!
I liked the accountability of Millar following up with me and helping me through it and also the support of the other kings. The biggest change in me was my self-confidence and the understanding and admitting that I had problems as well. I am now able to control my emotions much better and even stood up to my boss at work. My new relationship is thriving! Being able to put into practice the communicating skills has been invaluable. Things are now looking better with my ex.
I would like to start by thanking you for encouraging me to spend time on finding my true self again by making me peel back my layers and rebuilding myself. Your program though very self confronting was exactly what was needed. The difference both my older & younger children have noticed in me is that I am now the self confident self assured man, father they knew I was, I own my life and my decisions and am a greater person from doing your program. Thank you and all my fellow brothers out there in the program for being there for me and reminding me of my TRUE worth.
I personally liked the group feeling of having other guys in the same position and being able to get feedback and seeing how they were going. The live videos that u did were a great tool for my learning. The best result was proving to myself that I didn’t need my ex anymore. I was in a daze, deep down thinking that we were going to get back together when in actual fact she was moving on. I had massive changes in my mindset and also the ability to share my knowledge with a couple of guys that are in the same boat. I’m more approachable to talk to as well. Family seemed to be able to open up to me more on a deeper level.
Through the 8 week program I managed to improve things significantly with my ex to the point where its now amicable and respectful. It has changed my life. I hold my head up high and can’t believe the difference it has made with my daughter and I. The connection is as strong as ever.
The part I enjoyed the most about the program was having a good look at myself. I also learnt a lot about why things happened the way they did and it took away most of my hatred towards ex. My self confidence has grow hugely and I’m more relaxed with my kids. Now, I don’t have to use alcohol or cigs to relax. Biggest plus from coarse is the change in my ability to learn and improve. I feel I’m now on the right track.
When I first started I felt overwhelmed and broken and the support from the other guys in a similar situation definitely helped. I loved the step by step process and I also felt Millar gave me a lot of personal support at the start, listening to my situation. The biggest change for me was being aware that I can be happy by myself and that there are thousands of women out there who I could be with. I am alive again and I have stopped telling myself BS stories that have held me back.
I liked the interaction between the Facebook group and the Monday night webinars. The best result for me was the positive changes I’ve seen in the relationship between me and my son, he’s become more affectionate towards me, always getting really excited when he see’s me come to pick him up, he’ll run up n give me hugs at random. I feel like me and my son have a lot closer connection now. I can also see the difference in my communication with my ex, we still disagree on a lot of things, but I’ve been able to remain calm, not get angry at her or let it get the better of me, in other words I’ve been able to just let things go, and because of this we have not had a single argument since I started this course.